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上月于把子的口搞定了,我也于放下心。於子的口一直使我耿耿於,他的口在安卡拉,跟老的口;可我有再打算子回去土耳其生活,可以他在州接受教育生活,做中人。本我初就像在中生,在子生下後曾咨中大使的人是否要理中照回,但中照需要一多星期的,而小安的假期也只有十天,就只能先入土籍回中後再打算。

有些朋友知道我想把子的土照取消入中籍,笑我傻,多人破都想要在外生定居,就因得到外的身份,定居;我在然取消子的外籍,子要回去那就了。我想了久,曾想等子大了送他去,不再往深一考,我要是真麽做,反而害了子。婆家人我和子的度有目共睹,子的血不是正土人血,是混血的;然子不了解婆家人的如何,婆家人不接受我同也不接受我子,他出生可是一婆家的戚看他,甚至家族中最大分的小安奶奶。我看在眼痛在心,我家父母的件比不上他的越,可是我爸很子,就算多少都量好的西子,也我了一半的育用,他可了做外公外婆的本分,就算他不一半的育用,我也心,我的心就是一家人老老少少心心的。以前外人思想跟中人不一吧,有多少外人媳孩子的?自己在地住接到多人後才,之前的想法是的,外人和中人是一,有很多外人都喜子,甚至有些土媳跟老公搬娘家住的。在公内常看一些姥姥拖著子在公玩耍散步接送放,跟在中看到的,但最重要的是他意真心接受。我自己的婆家不是人,以我人想法是:他是感情的物,然大家的到子生下後更坏,我量想法造他和子有的候,可看到的情形是把子放在睡在餐桌上不理,自己夫妻在一旁看,那候我的心真的很痛,他就不能抱抱子?任由一小放在餐桌上,一摔下怎?我感到自己的子受到待,誓以後再不子他看著。

既然如此,子已中,我什麽要考送子去呢?他因是子而好生待?不的,只任由子。在看到子越可伶俐,是叫“ATA,ATA”不停,在我耳刺,我受他的冷漠待,子回到中後始月一生日不打候,奢望他一下奶奶些西寄子了。一很好的例子可以看出他是如何待小安和ATA,小安生日那天,他看我上,上小安祝生日快,他奶奶的候,不多久小安的表姐打途也是祝生日快的。我表任何言,在心不好受,他就是明子和我是外族人,而小安就算背叛他的意跟著我生活同是他家的人。我在上看到他的嘴,恨不得拿起克打特他一我心中累已久的不情。

我把子的口中是一好定,土耳其比得上中?起教育不行,校英上,要英就要花去校,家展不好,普遍人的思想是那麽的固不化的。最基本就是不想子去服兵役,搞不好被派去危地那怎?拿著那籍要享受那的福利一定要回去的,可回去後照他?去心他和教他?我小安,子的籍被取消後老知道?他可能不知道的,只能等人口普查才知道口人少了人;我姓名一直挂在那的籍上,不有跟他家族姓氏,他要求我跟,我所。可是我小安曾,土人家庭一般要求媳的姓由娘家姓氏改夫家姓氏,代表媳真正成家族中的一,那他不曾要求我改姓,然白不我作家族成呢。我小安,在子入了籍跟了我姓,你生?他不,可我知道他在心是很介意的,一堂堂大男人,子不跟他姓跟了老婆的,舒服?可是不得不子,他也不想子回去生活,他曾,如果子自在土的,就像他的同一,父母管束不,整天只知道花,有好前途?

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xin
做个中国人也没有什么不好,广州那么好的城市,一点也不比他们差,你的儿子在你家,在这个充满爱的环境里成长,一定会长成一个好孩子的!放心吧!
2007-01-23 13:46:27
Joanna
真的打算不回土耳其吗?
2007-02-07 17:26:25
Zukee
是不打算回去了,想到那边的某些人就觉得回去没意思,要帮忙时没人帮,要拿利益时手急眼快地来。
2007-02-09 10:20:07
Joanna
真的希望小安的家人能早日明白!
新年快到,新年快乐!!
2007-02-10 10:22:40
Zukee
他们不会明白的,可能老爷已经知道我儿子的土籍取消了,现在都不曾看见他上网呢。可能气我呢,我倒不在乎他气不气。
2007-02-11 01:05:55
atabeg
hello zukee:
thanks for your advice last time, but we still couldnt get married in turkey, cause my single certificate only prove i am a single when i was in china. it doesnt prove that i m a single when i was in ireland. when i was in turkey i found i get pregnent, so my fiancee plans to go to china and get married there. It would be easier for both of us. The same as you, my mother-in law doesnt like me, and she said already she wont look after my baby, it`s little bit sad, but i m sure i will grow up my baby in china with ahmet.
i m gonna go back china to born our baby. ahmet wants our baby join in chinese nationality. :) we are both happy with that.
best wishes for everything
2007-03-06 07:11:34
Zukee
Dear Atabeg,
I am so happy to get your good news. You dont be afraid and worry, just ready to welcome your dearly baby in china. There are many ppl in turkey, is stopping in old time still, does not know how to update their mind, so they can not easily to accept the foreigner to be their family. They said that dont do anything for you, so it`s true and you dont hope what will get something from them including helping. You must be stronger, and let them know you dont need their support, when ou will be strong more than before, they will afraid you and feel shy.

As me, I dont care my husband family how to think of me, cause i dont need their helping. I dont need turkish passport and nationality, my son too, he is chinese now and I dont worry again about his national.
2007-03-06 10:22:20
Joanna
Best regards to you all!
2007-03-06 23:50:37
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