Mysql 连接不上远程数据库，求助

如题，放假在家玩树莓派集群，其中一台连不上数据库，今日怪事+1

============================================================================= 状态描述：

平台树莓派 4B，架构 armv7，系统 raspbian 最新（ debian10 ）

数据库版本 mariadb-server version: 10.3.22

安装 mariadb-server & client 后，

本地 mysql （ client ） 、以及 pypmyadmin可以连接数据库，工作正常。

远程连接（ navicat 等）不能连接数据库，提示

>> mysql -h192.168.0.109 -uroot ERROR 2002 (HY000): Can't connect to MySQL server on '192.168.0.106' (10061) 

============================================================================= 配置方面，

/etc/mysql/my.cnf 中设置了绑定任意

[mysqld] bind-address=0.0.0.0 

数据库方面,select user,host from mysql.user; 返回

+------+------+ | user | host | +------+------+ | root | % | +------+------+ 

网络方面，ifconfig 显示

wlan0: flags=4163<UP,BROADCAST,RUNNING,MULTICAST> mtu 1500 inet 192.168.0.106 netmask 255.255.255.0 broadcast 192.168.0.255 inet6 fe80::aff7:f451:c78e:c4eb prefixlen 64 scopeid 0x20<link> ether dc:a6:32:10:7a:44 txqueuelen 1000 (Ethernet) RX packets 123134 bytes 147417079 (140.5 MiB) RX errors 0 dropped 0 overruns 0 frame 0 TX packets 49386 bytes 8702996 (8.2 MiB) TX errors 0 dropped 0 overruns 0 carrier 0 collisions 0 

远程连接能正确到达指定端口

C:\Windows\System32>tcping 192.168.0.106 3306 Probing 192.168.0.106:3306/tcp - Port is open - time=4.249ms Probing 192.168.0.106:3306/tcp - Port is open - time=2.502ms Probing 192.168.0.106:3306/tcp - Port is open - time=3.440ms Probing 192.168.0.106:3306/tcp - Port is open - time=2.913ms Ping statistics for 192.168.0.106:3306 4 probes sent. 4 successful, 0 failed. (0.00% fail) Approximate trip times in milli-seconds: Minimum = 2.502ms, Maximum = 4.249ms, Average = 3.276ms 

感觉十分奇怪，第一次遇到这种情况，感觉配置和网络都没啥问题，不知道为啥连不上，求助。